The facts of our lives

In the days when the judges ruled there was a famine in the land, and a man of Bethlehem in Judah went to sojourn in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two sons. ~ Ruth 1:1, ESV ~ If you follow this story, Naomi and Ruth become widows, alone, sojourning in the desert and … Continue reading The facts of our lives

The Power of Healthy Relationships

A codependent focuses on others and their problems to such an extent that the codependent's life is often adversely affected.  ~ The Red Book, Adult Children of Alcoholics, pp. 6-7 ~ We have seen and felt the sting of unpleasant power of unhealthy and toxic relationships. When we take upon ourselves the burden and responsibility … Continue reading The Power of Healthy Relationships

Overcoming the Guilt of Our Fathers and Ourselves

...you repay the guilt of fathers to their children after them... ~ Jeremy 32:18, ESV ~ Upon entering recovery, and spiritual healing, we are confronted with the guilt and shame that has plagued us in our dysfunctional environments; and, how our own roles have affected the environment of our own children. Through the lens of … Continue reading Overcoming the Guilt of Our Fathers and Ourselves